#FlanFridays: Reflections and Culinary Inspiration & Cinnamon Creme Flan Recipe

November was a super tough month for my family. My Grandfather passed away.

I went to DC for Thanksgiving and spent two sick weeks there, being confined to my mother’s dreamy bed and the hyperactive kitchen (on days I mustered energy to crawl out of bed). After a miserable 9-hour drive back to Atlanta, I needed to spend some pensive time alone. I’m alone in Atlanta for the most part — it’s just me and Paris. But, I needed to get out and see strangers, see nature, feel the air and embrace the new season. For many reasons this season is different than others. There’s been deep loss, but tremendous growth in my personal life. Being outside would be good to put things in perspective without the unnatural distraction of this laptop or TV.

I decided to spend my first Saturday back at Piedmont Park, a micro blueprint of a wannabe Central Park. It’s lovely, actually. Lots of trees, open pasture and tons of happy dogs. There’s a lake and an amazing view of Atlanta’s skyline, which happens to be one of the prettiest I’ve seen on the east coast.

Piedmont Park in the early morn.

It was a brisk early afternoon and all I could think of was keeping my bare hands warm…Paris needed to be handheld though, so I walked pretty rigorously. Not my intention. But, even in my rushed walk, I took some time to sit down and think. Truthfully, I needed to have a conversation with myself about pertinent situations. Mentally itemizing what I’ve been unhappy or disappointed with would be a great start.

But damn, that list was way too long and I’d be at the Park ’til dusk… I quickly edited my list and focused on those things that matter…. now! At the fore was my few yet solid friendships and how I needed to nurture them more. I questioned being in Atlanta and what the purpose of living here is. After almost 6 years, I’ve still not figured it out, though I have some theories. I kicked up dirt at the reality that I didn’t spend enough time with my grandfather while he was alive and even when he was really ill over the last two years. How could I now make that better?

That led to a quiet conversation about my passions and how it’s affecting my career. The big question was: Am I really giving myself and my work 100% of what I have in me. Was I cooking my heart out? Was my writing better (and more concise???)? Was my travel note-keeping organized and shared more efficiently. Were my editorial deadlines being kept? (not to mention the other projects in my life having nothing to do with food that crossed my thoughts).

The answer caused a stall on the swinging bench.

I wasn’t.

If the water on that lake I was sitting in front of was iced over, I might as well have skated right across to the other side. Metaphorically, that’s exactly how I was feeling about my efforts in my life.

Thank God the water was just water. I stayed on the swing and said a prayer, asking for my mojo to come back in full swing. For that zest for life and persistence I used to have and to take over my spirit and emotions.

I gazed at a pink flower and transferred the “woe is me” feeling into “there is a bright side to all of this.”

There really is my friends.

Where am I going with all of this?

It’s Friday and you know what that means…. #FLANFRIDAYS. The idea came to life one year ago and is going better than I thought, but not as great as it could be. Not because I’ve run out of creations and new flavors to combine. It’s because I’ve not been giving 100% of my passion and that joi de vivre to my work.

There have been too many Thursday afternoons where I simply didn’t want to make flan — unless of course it was for a client, in which case I’ve probably already shared that flavor or wouldn’t be able to prettify, plate and photograph. But, the lack of inspiration and motivation hasn’t plagued just this delectable dessert day. It’s affected my cooking, writing and sharing. I won’t throw myself under the bus and admit how many blog posts are in queue with real deadlines I’ve missed. Fabulous trips I’ve taken involving extravagant food events, new recipes I’ve developed, entertaining interviews with food personalities like Tiffany Derry of Top Chef and Chef Virgina Willis talking up gourmet Southern cuisine in a lively podcast. Or what about the colorful cookbooks and gourmet product reviews needing attention? … that’s just the beginning of it.

The trip to the Park did me well.

I realized there was no reason to be in the defying rut I’ve been. Life is about changes, transitions, new beginnings, challenges, growth and embracing all of those.

Christmas came and went. My grandfather would have been 91 last Sunday. In his honor, we ate well—he had a robust and extraordinary appetite — sang “Happy Birthday” as we did every Christmas morning, and tried to be as uplifted as he would have wanted us to be. I paused again on that day and thought about how precious life really is. My grandmother stood by the tree, unacommpanied by her 65-year partner and best friend. And yet still, she’s perservered and stood strong in her small frame.

I was revived through all of this. Possibly a feeling of guilt took over. How could I not be inspired, motivated or give my work –talents I’ve been given– 100%+ of my energy? It’s what my imprint will be.

With 2011 ending on a somber note, I hug 2012 tightly with passion, indulgence, fearlessness, relentless tenacity and kick ass mojo. For a lot of reasons I won’t bore you with, 2012 IS MY year. I owe it to myself and to my faithful readers, supporters, clients, new ones to come and of course my family!

New Year’s Eve sips.

Here’s to all the marvelous endeavors, cooking, eating, writing, traveling, tasting, creating and growing the new years is bringing us all!


Happy #FLANFRIDAYS and sexy New Year!

ps: my deepest regret for the crappiest flan picture, ever! there’s a reason for this edible mess. all of the images i took on my laptop are just that: on my broken laptop. thank goodness i had one lone shot on my iPhone. even all the doctring in the world could not yield a better picture. so, there you have it. as soon as i’m able to access my files again, trust that i will spare your eyes of such hotmessnes! all others are fine, right! Thanks to instagram, which by the way, I’d addicted to!

Eat well, love unapologetically, pray with true intention, and take care of yourself.

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0 thoughts on “#FlanFridays: Reflections and Culinary Inspiration & Cinnamon Creme Flan Recipe

  1. Ericka: I sure hope you do. Will be a crowd pleaser! Let me know if you need the bain marie method! Happy new year.

    Rosa: It was. Too bad the pictures I took are on my dead laptop, so I had to use the single shot I was able to get on my iphone! Gawd…. either way, it was good! Happy new year to you, too!

    Comiendo en LA: gracias, amiga. Espero qu’el ano nuevo te traiga muchas cositas bonitas.

    Unknown Mami: Yes! All of that and more. Wishing the same for you!

  2. Sorry about the sad news, Bren. It’s tough to go through such a loss. You’ve got plenty of talent so I’m sure you’ll find your mojo back. I wish a big, bright 2012! I wish all the best.

    And yumm!! That flan!!

  3. You own 2012- not the other way around. You didn’t get here because someone gave up. 65 years is a whole lotta perseverence. Now you go take on the next 65. Love ya.

  4. You are so very talented my friend and I know that you will be very successful with all your projects this year for sure! It was awesome to finally meet you in person yesterday! I had so much fun talking to you! And I am really looking forward to hanging out with you in the spring! Happy new year! Oh, and of course your flan looks heavenly!

  5. It’s good to hear that you spent some time reflecting on what is important in this life. So many of your problems can be solved by just having a conversation with yourself. It also looks like you picked a beautiful place to just chill out and meditate on your thoughts. I like your pics of the park. I think you have a strong mind and a beautiful heart which are two qualities that will continue to contribute to your success. Stay positive, keep surprising us with new flan flavors and remember that you have fans and friends that love you. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

  6. What beautiful photos and such a gorgeous park. I am glad you took some time to get re-in touch with yourself :) Sorry about your loss and being ill, but almost 91, wow I am sure he had a great life that will live on through his loved ones.
    Happy 2012 Bren, wishing you a wonderful year!

  7. Great and inspirational post! I can relate to your feelings and we all sometimes have to question ourselves. The ruts that people fall into at some point or another in life, are necessary for rebirth. The beautiful flower you saw out of nowhere was a sure sign of that. Keep up the great work. I am obsessed with flan, and I can’t wait to try yours. Happy 2012! 😀

  8. This post is full of emotions. You transmit that not only with your words but with the pictures. I´m sure this year is YOUR YEAR… wish you all the best. And that flan looks espectacular!!

  9. I LOOOVE flan and this looks amazing. I feel like I can taste it through those pictures. I use to live in Miami and desperately miss some great flan! I’m making this for my next get together.

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